If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positive...

What would you do?

  • Marry her.

    Votes: 3 9.1%
  • Never see her again.

    Votes: 22 66.7%
  • Unsure.

    Votes: 8 24.2%

  • Total voters
    33

McRocket

Banned
...what would you do?

But she gave you an ultimatum; either you marry her today or never see her again.

What would you do?
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

run!!
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

I am running if any girl I am dating has an STD! STD's scare the poo poo out of me.
 

McRocket

Banned
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

Yeah, me too.

Something tells me I should have picked a less threatening STD.

:)

But...I wanted to know what people on here thought...so...
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

well, being that she's a pornstar and not my girlfriend already or screwing me, i'd run. not only that, but the fact that i'm a pretty average, nobody has ever heard of me type guy, she'd have some issues to be in love with me and want to marry, so i'd probably run no matter what.

as far as less threating std's like hpv(warts) of chlamydia or herpes, i probably wouldn't run, but only if they didn't decieve me and give it to me. that type of information has to come out at the beginning of a relationship. it may scare some away, but not all. protection is available, after all.
 

Vanilla Bear

Bears For Life
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

If we love us, we are a time together and its real LOVE (and it doesnt matter if its a pornstar or not) than I would of course still marry her!
Isnt that the meaning of Love?
You remain steadfastly at hers/his side no matter what happens exept that he/her cheated on you.

But if shes just a pornstar and I "love" her like "Oh wow shes damn hot on my screen" and she has aids but loves me - why should I marry her??
Or if the girl had an affair and that was why shes infected! - again, why the hell should I marry her?
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

Even if I was dating the average girl, not pornstar, just the average girl in your town, and fell madly in love with her, even though we had been dating for 3 years, and she told me she had a STD, I would still run. I would not be rude to her though.
She is still a human. The thing is STD's scare me so much that I wouldnt even want to me within site of her. I know that sounds really stupid and really uneducated but that is how bad STD's scare me. Yes, even the curable ones.
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

just the fact a pornstar is telling you they love you instills a scare in me lol.

i love these 2am threads! thanks mcrocket, back to bed, little ones down again, finally
 

McRocket

Banned
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

Even if I was dating the average girl, not pornstar, just the average girl in your town, and fell madly in love with her, even though we had been dating for 3 years, and she told me she had a STD, I would still run. I would not be rude to her though.
She is still a human. The thing is STD's scare me so much that I wouldnt even want to me within site of her. I know that sounds really stupid and really uneducated but that is how bad STD's scare me. Yes, even the curable ones.

It sounds really honest.

Nothing wrong with that, imo. You aren't insulting them, just telling us what you think/feel. Honesty is always cool.

STD's scare me also. I don't know what I would do if it was a long time partner. I really don't.
I would hope I would stick by her. But I cannot be sure I would.
But I have never been MADLY in love, so what do I know? They say it does weird things to you like make your partner more important to you then you are to yourself.
That would be interesting.
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

Having a longterm partner break this kind of news to you would be a whole different kettle of fish.....

On the current quesion at hand, I would cut my losses and find another dreamgirl.
 

Vanilla Bear

Bears For Life
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

he thing is STD's scare me so much that I wouldnt even want to me within site of her. I know that sounds really stupid and really uneducated but that is how bad STD's scare me. Yes, even the curable ones.

Actually Yes! But I think its ok and many people would act like that.
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

There is actually one former female porn star who has genital herpes and is married. I saw her website a few weeks back. She now tries to talk other porn stars and young girls abou the dangers of porn and sex. I think she does some type of christian counseling too. I forgot her name.
It is cool that she has a husband who loves her deeply though. Gosh, I wish I could remember her name.
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

I wouldn't marry my favorite pornstar. I just don't think that I could ignore her past. It doesn't even matter whether she has an STD or not.

And I wouldn't marry someone who is HIV positive either.
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

As much as I like watchin porn and seeing the hot ladies there is no way I would ever do anything with one of them. Even Belladonna admitted in one of her posts that most porn stars contract a STD. Most of them are bacterial infections and clear up though. Just the thought makes me sick.
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

I'm not in love with any pornstars either. If I met a girl that I didn't know was a pornstar or had aids and found this out, I guess if I really loved her than I might marry her. But I don't know that I would even want to marry someone that I loved that wasn't a pornstar and didn't have aids, so I guess that really depends on the person and how I feel at the time in that situation.
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

Kick her ass to the curb! Although...if a pornstar were in love with me...then logicaly we would have already had sex, so now I'd be HIV positive too. In that case may as well marry her. Damn! Can't change my answer. My response was assuming we hadn't had sex for some odd reason. Like she just saw me and fell in love!
 

member006

Closed Account
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

Not to avoid the topic, but many here know I see things from my own angle sometimes. I think anyone with a std should be honest up front before love, avoiding such decisions. Anyone with aids that's in love with someone should never ask or expect that of them. If they indeed do, its only being selfish so to me the love isn't there. If you love, you aren't selfish. Love is not me.. me.. me, its you.. you.. you. If it were me sick, as much as it would hurt I would walk away never putting the person I love on the spot.

If you were put on that spot, run. Porn star or no. No love is there for you or for themselves.

LL
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

There is actually one former female porn star who has genital herpes and is married. I saw her website a few weeks back. She now tries to talk other porn stars and young girls abou the dangers of porn and sex. I think she does some type of christian counseling too. I forgot her name.
It is cool that she has a husband who loves her deeply though. Gosh, I wish I could remember her name.

Shelley Lubben? Sky Lopez?

Frankly, I doubt I'd allow myself to get into a relationship with a pornstar, full stop. Regardless of whether she has an STD or not. Yeah, sure, she's probably going to be gorgeous, but I'd find it hard to muster any trust. You'll always have that niggling feeling that she's going to be promiscuous and easy for any guy who flashes enough cash simply on past history.

I DEFINITELY couldn't be with a girl who was still active in the industry. If she'd really changed her lifestyle considerably, then it would be tougher for me to decide.
 

Perilypos

Retired Moderator
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

"Better to die of A.I.D.S. from a beautiful girl than of myocardial infarction from a stupid boss!" :D

Just kidding... of course, I'd flee from her
 
Re: If your favorite pornstar loved you and wanted to wed you now but was HIV positiv

An ultimatum? Yeah, she really loves me.
 
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